Kathleen & Andrea



Two $500.00 scholarships in Peter' s name were awarded at the Oyster River High School graduation ceremony on June 10, 2005. The Peter D. Grant 'Wild Ride' Adventure Scholarship was given to Andrea LeBarge and the Peter D. Grant Memorial Scholarship was awarded to Kathleen Kilmain.

Anita Mathur and Bryan Rutland presented the scholarships. Also in attendance were Dr. and Mrs. deJong (Peter's stepfather and mother), Mrs. Birch, Mr. and Mrs. Downey, Mrs. Khleif, and Carole York (Tim Myers' mom).


Dr. deJong, Andrea LeBarge, KathleenKilmain, and Bryan Rutland


Kathleen Kilmain with framed photo of Peter headed off to climb El Capitan in Yosemite National Park

(Standing with Catharina deJong
and Bryan Rutland)

ABOUT ANDREA

Andrea LeBarge is an ORHS honor student. She will be attending the University of Rhode Island next year to pursue a degre in Coastal Studies. Andrea holds 17 swimming records with the Oyster River Otters, placed 7th in the state meet in the 100 butterfly and 5th in the 100 Freestyle. Andrea also races crew competitively and enjoys bicycling and hiking.

In addition to her sport interests and accomplishments, Andrea is an enthusiastic trumpet player - having performed in Oyster River's Concert and Jazz bands all four years of high school. Andrea also participated in an exchange program to Severodvinsk, Russia during her sophomore year. While in Russia, she studied deforestation in-depth and discussed environmental issues and solutions with Russian professors, media, and government officials. It was this trip which solidified her career interest in environmental science and natural resource preservation.

Excerpts from Andrea's Application Essays:

"I have loved the outdoors since childhood. My parents always encouraged me to spend time outdoors appreciating the world around me. We went hiking in the mountains, biking along the beach, and boating around the bay. I have many stories to tell about great outdoors adventures, but my most memorable experience was hiking through the mountains of St. John in the Virgin Islands. Here we stayed in an environmentally friendly resort, which had tents and boardwalks. It was incredible to hear the crash of the waves and the chirps of the frogs directly outside the tents. The quiet beach was a place to snorkel, and kayak. On one day we kayaked all the way out to a tiny deserted island to explore the coral along the shore. On the way back we got caught in a huge storm and had to embrace the waves.

The most spectacular adventure was hiking through the mountains although they were not very tall. We walked along the beach through forests filled with lush tropical plants, mongoose, and donkeys. The mountains there are unique in that they ascend very quickly, having very steep slopes. We were not fully equipped, but when we reached the top the view was beyond belief. We could see all the way out to where we had kayaked the day before, and all of the boats in the harbor. The treacherous journey through the humidity of the forest was well worth the view." (Andrea LeBarge)

ABOUT KATHLEEN

Kathleen Kilmain is an ORHS honor student and will be attending the University of Mary Washington to study English. Kathleen is an accomplished swimmer, rower, and basketball player. She was captain of the crew team in her junior and senior years of high school, and received the "Most Disciplined Crew" award. She also holds a position on the Board of Directors at Great Bay Rowing, where she has served as summer crew camp counselor. Kathleen is also the recipient of the ORHS Coach's award in swimming and the NHIAA Sportsmanship Award for basketball. In addition to these sports, Kathleen is excited to begin exploring her awakening interest in hiking after an inspirational jaunt up Mt. Chocorua during her St. Paul's Advanced Studies program (see essay #1 below).

Kathleen has a passion for photography. She served as photo editor of the high school newspaper in 11th grade and was art editor of the ORHS literary arts magazine. She hopes to pursue writing/teaching English as a career.

Excerpts from Kathleen's Application Essays:

Essay #1

"Must...Reach top...first, was the phrase I repeated over in my head as I discovered my new love for hiking mountains. I was with my class from St. Paul's Advanced Studies program last summer when I hiked Mt. Chocorua. The boys sprinted up the mountain. I was stuck between the sprinting boys and the nature observing girls. It was our fourth week at the summer program, and none of us had done anything that was extremely physically intense. The physical activity they had scheduled during the day was notheing compared to what I was used to. I was excited. For the first time that summer, my competitive energy streak broke and I was determined to be the first girl to reach the top. My goal echoed in my head with each step. I coached myself through the throbbing in my legs. They were burning, but I had hope that the satisfaction of reaching the top would be similar to the completion of a rowing race. I was right. I reached the top just as they boys were sitting down for lunch. I had made it. I was the first girl. My determination made the view from the top even more beautiful." (Kathleen Kilmain)

Essay #2

' I know so many people, still trying to live on in the past...stop dreaming, and live on in the future...don't look back' - Van Morrison, 'Don't Look Back'


"Fall rowing season 2003; the best season of my four years with the crew team. Why? The team simply meshed. Not only were we each others source of energy on the water, off the water we were practically family. Between comparing blisters and exchanging layers for chilling rows, we managed to squeeze in many spaghetti dinners accompanied by t-shirt/uniform design time. We loved being with each other. Season later, things changed.

A teammate died, our coach left, and half the team was graduating. Death had hit us hard. I wanted the innocence of that 2003 fall season back. Van Morrison's song made it clear to me that crew would never be like it had been. I learned through experience and through the lyrics, that the only way to continue enjoying crew would be to set goals. I have been looking ahead, working hard and having fun. I plan to row through college. The past was great, now I'm excited for my future." (Kathleen Kilmain)

SO...WHY TWO RECIPIENTS THIS YEAR?!
(Read these exerpts from our scholarship presentation speech to find out!)

We are doing something unusual this year by giving out two scholarships instead of one. This year we felt that two applicants strongly represented Peter’s interests and personality in different ways, and that we would be doing Peter a disservice by not honoring them both with a scholarship.

I’d like to share a passage from the book Peter was writing at the end of his life. It exemplifies the fierce determination and athleticism that kept Peter pushing his limits even in the midst of debilitating chemotherapy treatments.

On Monday I could resist no longer. I went for a run. I put down 6 miles - as fast as my better times before the word “cancer” was in my life again. I was re-invigorated. In the final climb I slowed a bit and was soon passed by a man in his 50s. “That’s it,” I thought, “you can’t have that” as I kept pace with him up the hill. It was the arrogance of youth that pulled me up that hill; an expectation that I should be healthier than anyone his age. When I got back to the car, I looked back up at the summit and impolitely whispered my intent to return.

The first award that we are giving is the Peter Grant ‘Wild Ride’ Adventure Scholarship. Peter had an adventurer’s soul, in the widest sense of the word. He was equally willing to dive into a physics or engineering problem as to windsurf into a coming hurricane or re-tackle a rock cliff after a fall. For those of us who knew him, Peter simply redefined what was possible. It is our hope that this scholarship will nurture new adventurers to follow in Peter’s wide-ranging footsteps.

In the “Adventure” scholarship, we honor a student who exhibits Peter’s enthusiasm for a variety of outdoor sports and his passion for science and the environment. This year we recognize his competitive spirit, his preference to lead through example, his strong sense of honesty and integrity, and his disdain for slackers. We are very pleased to award this year’s ‘Wild Ride’ Adventure Scholarship to Andrea LeBarge.

Our second award this year is the Peter Grant Memorial Scholarship. Toward the end of his life, Peter turned inward. He looked hard at himself and the world. He took stock of what was important and what was not. He tried to spend his time making sense of the good and the bad in life through writing and photography. With this second scholarship, we recognize Peter’s introspection and self-criticism, his mischievous smile, his loyalty to friends, and his stubborn, unyielding determination to get up a hill.

This year, we honor Kathleen Kilmain as the recipient of the Peter Grant Memorial Scholarship.

Trip to Northern California
August 8-13, 2005


UC Berkeley main library, with some really old students
(no...not including Anita)

UC Berkeley lap pool

UC Berkeley lap pool

UC Berkeley lap pool

At Marina's House
Kathleen, Blake ('90), Marina, Andrea, Steve ('91), Eva (friend), Jake (dog)

On the Ferry from
Tiburon to Angel Island

On the Ferry from
Tiburon to Angel Island

Top of Angel Island

4 hour car ride to Mt. Shasta

Resting at "Horse Camp" on the
a scent of Mt. Shasta

View of Mt. Shasta from Horse Camp

Where we stopped on
Mt. Shasta, 9,600 ft.

Where we stopped on
Mt. Shasta, 9,600 ft.

Where we stopped on
Mt. Shasta, 9,600 ft.

"Glissading" back down the mountain on our butts. Ouch!

Almost to the bottom again

After the climb!

"Adventure" Sushi Dinner

"Adventure" Sushi Dinner

"Adventure" Sushi Dinner

"Adventure" Sushi Dinner

Yoshi's Jazz Club
with Anita

Yoshi's Jazz Club
with Marina

Yoshi's Jazz Club
with Steve
(yes, Steve and Andrea have the same glasses on)